First and foremost, an effective love spell requires some form of connection. Just because someone has an infatuation with someone that they encountered one time in a passing moment, does not mean that work is possible or even feasible. Now, building on an existing relationship like a friendship, work relationship, sexual relationship or recent breakup is far more reasonable. Physical distance can hamper or prevent results if there is no regular contact. I’ve had clients attempt to mislead me into doing a work when they didn’t even know the last name of their infatuation!
A person’s own anxieties and fears can and will “contaminate” the work. If the magcian is afraid of losing someone and attempt to do that work they will only serve to amplify their fears because of the power of that emotion will overwhelm the magnetic energies needed to attract. If there is any lack in the conjurer the magic will amplify the lack. Incel vibes will increase and the person that is meant to be sweetened will only sense the worry and anxiety.
Applying too much force is another all too common problem. Too much heat will seem like an attack to the ancestors of the enchanted and they will oftentimes become extremely hostile. They will sense that something is off and go on high alert and start avoiding the conjurer if not outright attacking! Now, force can be gradually increased over a period of time, but this must be done with great care. Conversely not having enough force will cause nothing to happen at all.
Too many cooks in the kitchen is another common occurrence. Someone hires a worker and doesn’t get immediate results, so they hire another worker, then another etc.. On the assumption that each worker is legitimate, all of the different spirits can begin competing with each other. This only serves to create confusion for everyone involved and can cause unexpected consequences. This is why a good worker will tell a client that they will stop working if other workers are brought into the picture.
Finally, work can be spoiled by acting inappropriately with the person of desire. This work is as sensitive as it is volatile. Both people in the work no matter the role they are playing will feel the energies of the magnetism. It can be very challenging and sometimes overwhelming. It requires a bit of stoicism and self-control. Becoming volatile with the person you are attracted to can make a once possible attempt impossible.
Everybody wants to be loved, but this work is recommended to be utilized as a medicine to mend relationships not initiate them. It’s a lot of energy to put into someone that you don’t really know, it’s better to simply work on yourself and your social skills. A little magic charm doesn’t hurt to boost your own attractiveness and self confidence.
